Thinking5

lessons learned and taught

鸡汤&营销号短文

训诫

  • 不要在能量低落的时候思考未来 / 做出重要决策 / sth important …… ⚠️
  • 规划,规划,规划!战略,战略,战略!
  • 享受无意义感,休息不要愧疚,尤其是剥削者和被剥削者是同一个个体的时候
  • 可以的话别开大组会
  • 每天做一件没那么舒适的事情
  • 不听情绪化表达,不闻没有证据/依据的观点

他山之石

tips for potential phd

TL;DR: https://www.ruder.io/10-tips-for-research-and-a-phd/amp/

  1. Read broadly. need a pool and a flow
  2. Work on two things. build a pipeline
  3. Be ambitious. again, work on two things
  4. Collaborate.
  5. Be proactive.

This is probably the most important piece of advice. Don’t restrict yourself to the people in your immediate circle.

Reach out to people. The main value of conferences is in bringing people together. Before a conference, look up who is going (by checking authors of accepted papers) and email them. Try to be respectful, briefly introduce yourself, and state why you’d like to meet them (a useful mnemonic is Inigo Montoya’s Guide to Networking Success). Most senior people make time for such meetings. Try to talk to many people and particularly seek out those who are not already well-known.

Outside of conferences, it is often useful to ask people who have worked in your area for research advice via email. It’s amazing to see how many people in our field are genuinely helpful. Proper email etiquette is important, however and makes it more likely that a busy researcher will respond. In particular, you should make it clear that you’ve done your research and explored alternative solutions before contacting them.

Beyond advice, such connections may lead to other opportunities further down the line: job offers, collaborations, mentorship, and even friendship. Many of my collaborations started through such connections—meetings at a conference, a cold email, a Twitter message. The important thing is that they are based on mutual interests and respect. So be conscious of other’s people time. In addition, early career researchers with shared interests will often be much more open to collaborations than senior researchers who already have many commitments.

Being proactive also relates to how you view and talk about your research: Make it easy for other people to discover your work by highlighting it on your website, talking about it online, and writing a blog.

  1. Write a blog.
  2. Keep a source of positive energy. 每天坚持半小时以上的冥想,天气好的话30min 5km法特莱克
  3. Play to your strengths.
  4. Intern or visit a university.
  5. Play the long game. 珍惜,感恩,精进

jbhuang-awesome-tips

https://github.com/jbhuang0604/awesome-tips?tab=readme-ov-file#doing-research

How to do research with my mentors effectively?

Key idea: Help them help you! win-win, win, win, win.

random tips

  • learn to be more likeable
  • count your blessings, I am grateful for …… 感恩感激感化感谢感念
  • gather heroic moments, gonna be hero for sb, huh? // random acts of kindness
  • million dollar ideas sometimes strike at 3 am, or when you’re deep in thought showering
  • take charge of your own attitude – that ultimately determines your quality of life
  • Sleeping is the most important thing in the world, should always come first.
  • 零消耗:不轻易跟随对方的思维与情绪,不轻易期待,不轻易回应,我不同意你说的每一句话,但是我尊重你说话的权利。

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